Free relationship assessment

Am I loved for who I really am?

Discover whether your relationships are built on authentic connection or elaborate performance. Based on Reis & Shaver's intimacy process model and Kernis's authenticity research, uncover if you're loved for who you are or trapped in exhausting facades.

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Sources and foundations

This assessment draws on the following published frameworks.

Reis, H. T., & Shaver, P. (1988). Intimacy as an interpersonal process. In S. Duck (Ed.), Handbook of personal relationships (pp. 367-389). Wiley.

Kernis, M. H., & Goldman, B. M. (2006). A multicomponent conceptualization of authenticity. Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 38, 283-357.

Neff, K. D., & Vonk, R. (2009). Self-compassion versus global self-esteem. Journal of Personality, 77(1), 23-50.