Free relationship assessment

Am I trapped by my past?

Discover how much unresolved hurt, betrayal, and abandonment from earlier relationships still shapes the way you trust, attach, and choose partners today.

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5–7 minutesPrivate and anonymousFree

Sources and foundations

This assessment draws on the following published frameworks.

van der Kolk, B. A. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking.

Herman, J. L. (1992). Trauma and Recovery. Basic Books.

Campbell, L., & Renshaw, K. D. (2018). Posttraumatic stress disorder and relationship functioning: A meta-analysis. Journal of Family Psychology, 32(2), 291-302.